What Makes Your Heart Sing?
God laid on my heart this week to share a two-part blog series with you again. “Someone needs this,” I heard Him whisper. Maybe it’s you.
Feeling cranky, tired, discouraged or edgy? Sure, it could be hunger or hormones, but the problem could go deeper. Recently, I was suffering from “technology overload”–and a prolonged schedule packed with new “learning curves.” We’ve been married so long, my husband recognized the symptoms immediately. It was time to talk.
“What makes your heart sing?” he asked gently but firmly. “I think that’s the real problem.” I knew immediately what he meant. Maybe you do, too.
We’re All Unique
When I first started writing this blog, I almost changed my mind. Too common a question…nothing new I can add. But then I realized that’s really one of the very reasons for writing it–because we can all offer our own special perspectives.
We all have unique interests and activities. We list them in our profiles; we post them on our Facebook walls; and we talk about them with animated expressions. They occupy the white spaces of our calendars. Even our checkbooks can reflect them. We may enjoy a variety of things. But within each heart lies one or more passions–a purpose that drives our words, thoughts, and actions more than any other.
We experience maximum enjoyment and minimum weariness when we are involved in what makes our hearts sing.
Do What Makes Your Heart Sing
I first heard that phrase, “Do what makes your heart sing,” years ago in a magazine story about Lady Byrd Johnson. The wife of former president Lyndon B. Johnson, she was known for her beautification efforts–particularly in the planting of flowers throughout the nation’s countryside–though that was only a small part of her contributions. State highway tractors stopped mowing, and wildflowers began to spread.
Allergy sufferers may not appreciate her passion, but no one can deny the colorful, floral display of God’s beauty as you travel along the highways of America. The reason she persisted in that endeavor? “It was something my heart could sing to,” she once said.
I adopted that slogan years ago when I discovered one of the things that made my own heart sing: writing, particularly in creating beauty through the power of encouraging words, and pointing others toward intimacy with God. (Though I love flowers, too!)
At first my efforts were only for God’s ears and mine, but as I began to scatter seeds, they spread–like wildflowers–as I shared colorful words with others. When I moved too far away from that passion, I experienced a persistent restlessness.
What Is Your Purpose and Passion?
What about you? I know a couple whose simple song and goal is to help someone every day–in a practical way. Their “music” travels great distances. Some love to build fine homes; others live to better those in hovels.
A massage therapist I just met shared her passion of helping relieve others’ pain, even though as s sufferer of fibromyalgia, she is exhausted the following day after giving a massage. All of these offer their God-given gifts to others and make a difference in their own way.
Whether it’s touting the advantages of an i-pod or i-pad, training business employees, or teaching children life skills, you love what you do. And I’m not talking here just about making money with your passion. Not everyone can do that. But you can use your passion to make a difference in your world. I love what Katharine Graham once said: “To love what you do and feel that it matters, how could anything be more fun?”
But not everything in life is…fun, even if you do know what makes your heart sing. You may be suffering from something far more serious than “technology overload.” Sometimes economic downturns, painful losses, or debilitating circumstances can threaten to silence the music of your heart.
But it doesn’t have to. The apostle Paul’s enemies tried to eradicate the passionate “music” of Paul’s life: “To me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21). They chained him and threw him in a smelly dungeon. But guess what? Paul’s song grew louder. And as he sang praises, literally, to His God, the chains fell off; God both spared and changed the jailer’s life; and Paul’s passion–and song–grew even stronger (Acts 16:22-34).
How Do You Find the Song?
How do you tune in to the music that makes your heart sing? And how do you find it in the first place? Here are a few suggestions:
- Pull away and get alone with God. Ask Him to define your passion and your purpose, and to write His signature on it. Then listen, really listen. Someone has wisely said we can’t hear God speak if we’re always doing the talking.
- Watch where God is working and has worked in your life. God often uses your weaknesses as well as your strengths to birth a special ministry or passion He wants you to pursue.
- Remember we all go through seasons in our lives. God will use each season if you allow Him to, and make something beautiful of each one. When He closes a door, He may not plan to open a window. He may be protecting you from something that would ultimately bring only harm and disappointment to your life.
- You can discover your purpose and passion even in mundane situations. Be open to new things, but recognize that sometimes it truly is the little things that count in our lives. We can do small things that make a difference–and help change our world.
- Stop listening to everyone else’s voices. While we are to live and work with excellence, no one can “do it all.” How–and why–you use your God-given gifts or passions will differ from others. And what works for some won’t work for you.
In our effort to follow other sheep, we can temporarily “misplace” our song and lose our direction. Following sheep can lead to confusion. Following the Shepherd leads to peace and contentment. What makes even a sheep’s heart sing? The Shepherd’s melodious voice. Are you listening for it?
Can You Still Hear the Music?
Are you a mom? A dad? A single? A senior? What makes your heart sing? Can you still hear the music? If you’d like to read further on defining your purpose and your passion–and doing what makes your heart sing–you might enjoy this piece I wrote a few years ago called “The Passion of Purpose.”
Sometimes we find our passion–and our purpose–in the simplest and most unlikely places. What about you? What do you think?
“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me” (John 10:27, NIV).
What About You?
What makes your heart sing? Share with us your heart passion and maybe how God made that clear to you. Leave your comments below.
NEXT: What Makes God’s Heart Sing?
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