Should We Apologize for Our Blessings?

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Good News Is Hard to Keep Quiet

On facebook last week I shared a “Day-votional Truth for the Day”: “Good news is hard to keep quiet.” I quoted the response of Peter and John after they had been asked by some Jewish religious leaders not to speak of Jesus again: “”Do you think God wants us to obey you rather than him? We cannot stop telling about the wonderful things we have seen and heard” (Acts 4:19-20, NLT).

One of the facebook comments about my post brought up an interesting perspective, and maybe even a different issue altogether–about feeling guilty when sharing with others what God has done for us.  But maybe we can tie the two thoughts together. I promised to address it in today’s blog.

Should We Apologize for Our Blessings?

Do you ever feel guilty about speaking of God’s personal blessings to you, especially around an unbeliever or someone less fortunate? Do you ever feel like Jacob’s favored son, Joseph, sporting his coat of many colors and almost bragging about his God-given dreams about his brothers (Genesis 37)? Should you apologize for your blessings? Should you keep quiet about them?

Boast About Jesus

Regarding the first verse above, what Peter and John shared was the Good News–the Gospel–the message of Jesus’ love and forgiveness for all through His death and resurrection. Peter and John were Jesus’ disciples, eye-witnesses, and would be persecuted everywhere they went. Yet these two could not keep silent!

They boasted only about Jesus, nothing of themselves. Addressing unbelievers did not silence them. Because unbelievers were the ones Jesus died for. No apology needed there.

The “good news” of  Christ and knowing Him certainly tops our list of blessings. After that we could each testify to our own personalized ways that God has given us grace and favor.

Thanksgiving Blessings

When our family shares a Thanksgiving meal each year, we use long-standing “3-bean” testimony time. We take turns enumerating what we are thankful for that year, dropping a bean in a jar on each turn (After years and years of use, the jar is filling up).

Focus on the Giver

But if we focus on the gift rather than the Giver, especially to others less fortunate, they might not appreciate our words. Use sensitivity and focus on how God can encourage others through you. Blessings were meant to be shared.

Blessings Also Come in Disguise

Remember too, that blessings often come in disguise. Through God’s amazing grace, has he turned pain into praise, or ashes into beauty for you? (Joseph had his turn at facing diaster–which truly turned into a blessing later). That’s a blesssing you can share when God prompts you to, just as you can a tangible gift such as a raise, a good job, or a new baby. When, where, and how you vocalize your blessings might be the key.

Change Our World for Christ

How can you use God’s blessings to bless others? If every person who has been blessed by God in some way (and we all have) would unselfishly share with others this year, with even one person, their time, their service, their possessions, their love–and the good news of God’s love–we might relieve the economic crisis, and truly change our world for Christ. Good news and godly living is too powerful to keep silent. Others are watching–and waiting.

Even Persecution Is a Blessing

Most of us will never experience the kind of persecution the disciples faced. Buy many who are reading this blog here or in other countries may be experiencing persecution now, due to their faith. Even persecution is a blessing, according to Matthew 5:10-11. Peter and John and all of Jesus’ disciples were blessed in this way!

Turn Your Blessings Into Boomerangs

So do these two trains of thought come together–the issue of sharing God’s good news freely and testifying to His blessings without guilt? I think so. Should you be quiet about the good news of God’s love? No. People are literally dying to know it. God’s kind of love is not boastful, rude, or insensitive. Should you apologize for the way God has blessed you? No. He has blessed you so that you can bless others. Thank God for His undeserved grace and favor on your life.

Should you ask God for wisdom, for both boldness and gentleness, and for opportunities to share His blessings with others? Absolutely. Turn your blessings into boomerangs. What God gives you, send it back to Him, so He can help you channel those blessings to others. Good news–and God’s blessings–were never meant to be hoarded.

But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord.  Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15 NIV).

What about you? What do you think? What blessings has God given you to share? Please share your comments below. Your words might encourage someone today! You will not be hounded, prodded, or automatically added to my mailing list if you do so. Feel free to email this blog to someone or to re-post on social media, using the buttons below. If you want to re-post any of my blogs on your own blog or website, please contact me for permission first. And if you’d like to, you can sign up for my blog/newsletter and updates at the top of this website page/sidebar. Your e-mail address will never be sold or given to anyone!

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    4 Responses to “Should We Apologize for Our Blessings?”

    1. magenta on February 15th, 2013 10:49 am

      Great post :) it has encouraged me to use God’s blessings to bless others everyday :) Thanks!

    2. Rebecca Barlow Jordan on February 16th, 2013 11:44 am

      Thank you, “Magenta.” I’m so glad you enjoyed the post.

    3. traysee on April 4th, 2013 11:39 am

      Thank u for all of ur studies what a blessing i was just talking to Jesus an telling him what a blessing he has given me with these websites. it came when my soul were thisty! many questions i had lodged in my heart by reading all of these was as though God him self was communicating with me face to face looking forward to studying more thank u very very much!!!!!

    4. Rebecca Barlow Jordan on April 5th, 2013 8:44 am

      Traysee, thanks for stopping by and for your encouraging words. I’m so glad the blogs have ministered to you!

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